[Fakta FFCrew] 9 Reasons people cheat!!
1. Bored
I'd say this is the most common reason that people cheat.It's tough to keep that edge throughout a relationship. Things start off grand and then level off and then you both realize that it's still real life. When you meet someone else, that inaugural excitement of a new relationship kicks back in.
2. Dependence
At first glance, cheating seems like independent behavior. It could be interpreted as doing what you want, when you want. But I would argue that cheating is a dependent behavior. A cheater is dependent because they are not strong enough to break up with their significant other in order to get with the new person.
3. Confusion
Sometimes life or a particular situation can get to you.
When the perfect storm of confusion is
going on in your head, you make mistakes.
4. Because They Let You
If any girl ever cheated on me, I'd break up with her
immediately. Forgiving a cheater is putting up with
it, and starts a vicious cycle. That person who
cheated may lose respect for you and might continue to
cheat-because they know they can get away with it, because
you'll continue to take them back.
5. Nurturing
If someone is mistreating you, then your first instinct is
to get away from him or her. But sometimes it's not that
simple-maybe you are raising kids together. If you feel
trapped in a bad relationship, it's only natural that you
will run to the open arms of a person who treats you well.
6. Revenge
This is quite simple- an eye for an eye. Cheat on them if
they cheat on you. If they continuously hurt you or abuse
you in some way, you do it to get them back.
7. Confirmation of Attractiveness
Sometimes when you're in a long relationship, or if
your significant other is taking you for granted, you
begin to wonder if you're still attractive.
Perhaps, because you were out on the dating circuit, you
felt more attractive when you were single. If you have an
affair, you've proven that a new person can be attracted to
you.
8. The Thrill
Some people just enjoy the thrill of cheating:
running around secretly, risking getting caught, andcreating
thrilling moments with a forbidden romance.
9. They Don't Consider It Cheating, Even Though You
Might
Relationships have that grey area, usually right
before you become exclusive. He thinks date #4 is when
you're "together," and you think date #2 is when you're
"together." If you haven't talked about exclusivity,
someone may think they are well within their rights to see
other people, even though the other person in the
relationship may not.
I don't understand why people don't break up as soon as they
have an urge to cheat. Is it natural to have temptation, or
is temptation a sign that the relationship is losing its
fire? What reasons would you add to this list, and do you
disagree with any? If you've ever cheated, why did you do
it? Could you forgive a cheater? If you are single, but
seeing a person who is in a committed relationship, does
that make you a cheater?
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